Thursday, December 14, 2017

New parenting tips

Saturday we had a fun Trolley play date with our neighbors, the Cosmics.  Cody and Henry met us at the White Rock Station and we rode to Uptown station to meet Jeremy and catch the trolley.
It was a long excursion for the kids. We left about 3:30 and got back home a little after 7pm. We all had fun but most of all, Will and I learned some great parenting tricks. Cody is in children's education field and she was professionally trained.
When Jackson fell off his chair at our picnic dinner, Cody reacted immediately and hold him tight. Unlike Jackson's normal reaction, he didn't even fuss after the incident. She said the key was "hold tight but talk softly". It gives the kids safe feeling and also calmed by the soft voice.
When Henry wandered off to the nearby table during dinner, Cody said to him "I am going to help you if you don't come back", Henry immediately came back to the table. She said kids worried about being helped more than anything. We've been using this trick and it worked like magic especially with Norah.

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