Thursday, December 14, 2017

New parenting tips

Saturday we had a fun Trolley play date with our neighbors, the Cosmics.  Cody and Henry met us at the White Rock Station and we rode to Uptown station to meet Jeremy and catch the trolley.
It was a long excursion for the kids. We left about 3:30 and got back home a little after 7pm. We all had fun but most of all, Will and I learned some great parenting tricks. Cody is in children's education field and she was professionally trained.
When Jackson fell off his chair at our picnic dinner, Cody reacted immediately and hold him tight. Unlike Jackson's normal reaction, he didn't even fuss after the incident. She said the key was "hold tight but talk softly". It gives the kids safe feeling and also calmed by the soft voice.
When Henry wandered off to the nearby table during dinner, Cody said to him "I am going to help you if you don't come back", Henry immediately came back to the table. She said kids worried about being helped more than anything. We've been using this trick and it worked like magic especially with Norah.

Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Biking around the lake

Sunday we biked around White Rock Lake the first time with Jackson and Norah. We made two playground stops and took three hours. Nevertheless we made it around!

Their stamina and patience is now sufficient for the long ride. We are so proud. And big applause goes to Daddy who peddled them for hours!

We didn't take photos on this trip, here is a photo taken in 2016 November

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Bubble Bath

Jackson and Norah had their first bubble bath. While Norah freaked out by the bubbles, Jackson had tons of fun.

Mommy, look! I am Santa Claus!

Loving it!

Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Candle light dinner

Tonight Jackson requested to have dinner under candle light. Will had the opportunity to capture a few candle light photos.





Monday, November 13, 2017

First swimming birthday party

Last weekend we joined Dion's birthday party at Emler swimming school. Jackson and Norah enjoyed the warm water play.

It's dark outside on the drive home. Norah started singing songs. On a quiet chilly Sunday night, her soft voice singing is one of our favorite moments in life.




Sunday, November 5, 2017

Miniature train in Fort Worth

Today is one of those November in the 90s days. Grandpa and all of us went to Fort Worth to check out their miniature train. We missed Grandma a lot. Hope she gets better soon!

Being there an hour early meant Jackson got to drive the train!

The ride is 45 minutes long along Trinity River Park. We all loved it! 

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

First trick-or-treating event

Norah and Jackson had their first Halloween outing today. Rain was in the forecast at 6pm. When we were driving to Millers' house, Norah started singing "Rain, rain, go away". And the weather cleared for us!


Monday, October 30, 2017

Snow white

Snow white and her sports shoe

Snow white charming the playground

Sunday, October 29, 2017

The marshmallow test

This weekend we finally conducted "the marshmallow test"! In the 1960s and 1970s, scientists designed a test for measuring delayed gratification. Kids aged 4 or 5 are given one marshmallow. They are told if they could wait without eating it for 15 minutes, they will get a second one and can eat both. The study showed that the kids who waited are more likely to have better life outcomes.

We heard about this test from different outlets this year and both of us wanted to have Jackson take that test. Today, I setup Norah's room for monitoring and took Jackson upstairs.

I must have explained the rules wrong because he had already finished chewing the marshmallow before I got downstairs. And he proudly called out: I am done and ready for you (and the second marshmallow)!

Will went upstairs and explained again. This time Jackson waited, and I waited in front of the monitor. 15 minutes felt so long. He stared at the marshmallow at the beginning and then he started talking to a stuffed animal. He knocked on the door at minute 8 and went back to laying on the bed waiting.

Waiting...
When the time was over and we showed up with two marshmallows, he quickly stuffed the two marshmallows in his mouth.
Delayed gratification!
So... Jackson passed the test on the second chance! :-)


Friday, October 6, 2017

The Experimentalist

Jackson is quite excited to try "experiments".  At school, his teacher made a "bouncy ball" by soaking a hard boiled egg in vinegar, or at least that what's he told us.  So, we let  him give it a try.  I would say it was somewhat successful.  😉

His favorite, though, is seeing what happens when he putts something in the freezer.  So far he's frozen water, gummy vitamins, soap bubbles, orange juice, egg yolk and cooked bell pepper...




The First Drop

Throwing Harder
What if I jump and throw?

Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Invoking Grandparents' Magic


The other day Norah wanted to pick out her own clothes, so we said "ok".  But then she picked out two pairs of pants and no shirt.  We told her she needed to trade a pair of pants for a shirt, but she wasn't having it.  She started crying and screaming and rolling on the floor (she is two now).  We left her for a few minutes.  When I came back, I said "how about this shirt.  Grandma and Grandpa got it for you?"  Tears ceased, a small smile emerged, and she happily put the shirt on.

Sunday, October 1, 2017

Counting sports cars

Jackson has been enamored with sports cars lately and has taken to counting how many he sees each day.  On a good weekend day, he will often spot more than 50.  Last weekend, we took a little side trip to a parking lot that often has fancy cars.  We weren't disappointed!


Ferrari 488 Spider

Mercedes AMG GT S

Mercedes-Benz G550 4x4 Squared - Not a sports but a rare find.

Sunday, September 24, 2017

Norah's birthday weekend

We had a fun filled weekend for Norah's 2nd birthday. We had Chloe, Bruno and Emma over for the weekend. Marshall and Kelly also stopped over. It was filled with family, friends, tennis, birthday party, an outdoor brunch and the Dallas' mandatory Arboretum photography trip!

Three kids played so well like fish to water. 
Norah showing Grandpa her MONSTER face. Be afraid, be very afraid...
Norah on her birthday throne, she was so proud!
One of the many photos that none of them looked at the camera. :-D

We got our family portrait! Thanks, Chloe and Bruno!

Our funny, spectacular girl (in train to be classy ;-))

Monday, September 11, 2017

The @#$%& Jackson does

At our tonight's bedtime routine, Jackson forgot to drink milk while reading stories. Jackson was drinking while I waited him laying on the bed. He joined me laying down. His straw was sucking air instead of milk.

Mommy: Silly, you can't drink milk laying down.
Jackson thought for a second and turned on his belly. And he proudly finished drinking milk laying down.

Tonight's book was about a group of chickens living happily near Versailles. There are the protagonists who are a pair of big brother and little sister. And there are a few naughty chickens as their friends. Jackson always looks for those naughty chickens in each drawing. (He likes them)

After story time, Mommy: Are there naughty chickens in your class?
Jackson: No. We don't have naughty chickens.
Mommy: Okay.
Jackson: Well, naughty chickens stay in the middle at our class. They don't get to be line leader or caboose.
Mommy: Are you sometimes line leader or caboose?
Jackson looked at me: No, mama. I am in the middle.


Saturday, September 9, 2017

Norah is a big girl

Norah grew a lot in her language ability the last few weeks.

She calls "my turn" when we are talking. She told me yesterday after school that she got time out for coloring on the table. She told us that there were buses out of her window on our drive to Texins today.

She tries hard to catch up with Jackson. She insisted on buckling herself on car seats and high chairs. Jackson started buckling himself from 3.5 years old. Everything to her is "Norah do it!" "Norah did it!" "Look! Look! I did it!".

She has a different approach than Jackson's when she gets in trouble. One day last week when I picked her up, she was in time out for climbing the table. Teacher told me she giggled and swayed her body when got called out for bad behavior. And she said "you are funny! Norah is funny!" to distract teacher from giving her time out.


Tuesday, August 22, 2017

The @#$%& Norah does

Yesterday Norah stayed at home because a low fever. I gave her Playdoh and a plastic knife to play. She accidentally scratched her neck with the plastic knife.

Norah pointing to her neck: Gege (Jackson) bit me! Here!
Mommy: But he is not even here!
Norah looked very certain: Gege bit me here!

She has developed a defensive mechanism towards Jackson. It's "Gege Stop!" "Gege timeout!" "No! Gege!" by default.

* Gege means big brother in Chinese.


Monday, August 21, 2017

To the San Juan Mountains 2017

Our family had another great summer week in the San Juan Mountains!

We met up with Daddy, Grandma and Grandpa at the airport on Sunday. They just came back from Cousin Ben's wedding in Nashville. Flight was short and pleasant -- Jackson loved his videos on iPad and Norah enjoyed attention from all the adults.

We got the same setup as last year at Ouray KOA. It felt like home when we saw the familiar decor of the cabin, the creek by our front deck and the mountains near the campground.

Monday we hiked the Ouray perimeter trail to a small waterfall and a troll bridge. It's a little too steep and rocky for Norah. Jackson did great again and was the line leader for our hiking group. Norah didn't like to be carried since big brother wasn't carried. After nap, we did a mine tour in Bachelor Gulch. It's a 45 minutes tour with a hike in the mine. Our tour guide was knowledgeable and shared with us some disturbing facts of miners's working and living conditions back then. Jackson was focused the whole duration. Norah lost interest half way and Mother/daughter team did some gold panning in the nearby creek.

Tuesday we went to check out Ouray hot spring together. It is setup perfect for kids. Most of the open area are 3ft deep and water is just bath water warmth. After nap, we checked out the house we are going to rent for next year. KOA is so popular that the cabin we wanted are already sold out next August! We are going to change it to VRBO living next year and see how we like it. And we started our fire to make S'more! Jackson was so focused making his S'more and he had two. He had sugar high that night and couldn't sleep well but it was worth it for him. He tells daddy before bedtime that he will dream of deer and campfire.

Wednesday I went to Orvis hot spring by myself and the rest of the gang went jeeping. Orvis is a cloth optional hot spring. I overcame my fear of seeing nudity with my love of hot spring. This place is wonderful, with 7 different pools in a garden setting. The lobster pool is 112-114 degrees. I was able to get in there at the end of the day. My favorite is the main pool. It was under cleaning during the day since Orvis cleans every other Wednesday. I went back after dinner. The lights were dark and the main pool is very big. I didn't even notice much nudity around me and I saw the sun slowly sets behind the tall mountains. It was an unique experience and I will definitely go back next year. Everyone on the trail also had great time. Jackson says he will dream of mountain and jeeps.

Thursday Will and I got to go hike the famous Ice Lake Trail while grandparents took care of the kids. It was 7 miles round trip in high elevation. It started from Clear Lake Jeep Trail that we came last year. Ever from the start, the trail showed us spectacular view in every angle. Waterfalls surrounds us, creeks cut through the wide flower filled marsh, rock forms like mighty cathedrals only magnitudes larger. It was also a high elevation gain trail, we kept climbing till at the end, we spotted this magical blue lake. We continued climbing following a nice lady's direction to Island Lake and then join the trail down in the basin. Island lake looks like a place that could harbor it's own lake monster. There are also weird shaped boulders under the milky blue water. We continued on a not very clear path, felt more like an adventure now since we didn't read about this trail. There were nobody else on it. Actually even later I search for this trail description, it couldn't be found anywhere. But eventually the path got more clear and we got back to the main trail. This hike is a truly memorable one.

We rented Opal Friday and Saturday and went jeeping Corkscrew Gulch to Hurricane pass to Silverton. We found the sheep near where they were last year and two kids enjoyed seeing them covering the side of the mountain. We made a stop at Silverton ski resort and Silverton train track on the way back around 3pm. And we saw the train came back to pick up its passenger. What a treat! On our way back, we spotted Grandma and her jeep on the side of the road. We thought Grandpa was on a bio-stop and sneaked behind Grandma to surprise her. It turns out their jeep was broken. Daddy, Grandma and Grandpa drove a trailer with jeep to Montrose to their mechanic.

Saturday we went to Yankee Boy Basin with Opal. We also made stops at Governor basin and Sidney Basin. This trail is one of my favorite because of the open view and wide flowers and easy access to side hiking trails. Also it is the end of Blue Lake Trail, the one we would like to try next year. We had our lunch in Sidney basin near the big boulders. Jackson loved climbing the big rocks. We made the same stop at Yankee Boy Basin's small lake as last year. It was also challenging hiking a short distance at that high elevation to the Blue Lake ridge.

Sunday we hiked the Ouray Perimeter trail again to the tunnel and box canyons. And followed by ice cream after nap, s'more after dinner, our vacation is beautifully wrapped up. We are already planing to come back. In between, let's dream of deer, jeep, mountains and campfires!